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How to be irresistible
What makes A Man/Woman more attractive than others?
Let's begin...
There's this song by J.Cole called Photograph
(And for the record, I'm a big fan)
In it, he describes his online crush and it is something I could relate with totally.
"Damn, I love your sense of humor
You don't get caught up in rumors
You don't be talking 'bout who fuckin' who
And I notice the way you maneuver
Sexy, but never show too much...
You could make time stop on a dime
I think you mastered the art of sublime
Your type is harder to find
You could turn water to wine, yeah"
In every class, among the staff or a bunch of friends and even in Church, there's always that one boy or girl with the certain je ne sais quoi.
They aren't always the prettiest, smartest or best dressed? There's just something.
What is it? Back to the song....
First thing J.Cole describes about his Crush is her sense of humour, Although, people tend to find their crushes to be funny but there's a rule to pass that qualifies you to be crushed on.
" girls don't fall for the clown, they fall for the funny one"
Whenever you make a joke and a girl laughs so hard that she ends by hitting you in laughter calling you that playful "Idiot".
Bro, you're on that destructive path of the friendzone.
The idea is not to be so funny but be funny or at least appreciate funny things. Laugh at jokes or learn how to fake a convincing laugh to jokes.
It's cute to be around someone that is funny or makes you think you're funny.
Next line, J.Cole's crush doesn't get involved in Cheap talk and Rumours.
There's a saying that 'You're what you say' and another that says 'What you laugh at tells alot about you'.
What do they mean?
The words that come out of your mouth and the things that interest and Incite you is a vivid picture of your personality.
With that said, I can't express enough how sexy a polymath is; someone who can say a alot about many things.
It's a big turn on to be knowledgeable.
My favourite line in that verse was
Sexy but never show too much
I could relate with it totally. I have a crush and she is the right kind of sexy in my eyes. Her clothes are tight enough to let you know she has IT but loose just right to make you wonder what else is hidden.
Her slits were never outrageous but revealed just enough; Just enough to make me....*well nevermind*
It's dressing in a way that doesn't scream attention but eventually getting it.
Now to the grand ingredient.
The art of sublime
There's so much meaning that could be ascribed to that phrase but there's a borderline.
It refers to someone or anything that exudes awe, brilliance and fear. And yes it can be an art.
How to attain this status?
Confidence without a tinge of insecurity
Be Somewhat Taciturn creating a sense of mystique.
Show a sense of pride; not the blatant annoying type.
And lastly, express power. Be very good at something.
Be it brilliance in academics or a certain manual or social skill . The more stuff you're really good at, the more attractive you're.
So by my authority, go and be irresistible .
Let's begin...
There's this song by J.Cole called Photograph
(And for the record, I'm a big fan)
In it, he describes his online crush and it is something I could relate with totally.
"Damn, I love your sense of humor
You don't get caught up in rumors
You don't be talking 'bout who fuckin' who
And I notice the way you maneuver
Sexy, but never show too much...
You could make time stop on a dime
I think you mastered the art of sublime
Your type is harder to find
You could turn water to wine, yeah"
In every class, among the staff or a bunch of friends and even in Church, there's always that one boy or girl with the certain je ne sais quoi.
They aren't always the prettiest, smartest or best dressed? There's just something.
First thing J.Cole describes about his Crush is her sense of humour, Although, people tend to find their crushes to be funny but there's a rule to pass that qualifies you to be crushed on.
" girls don't fall for the clown, they fall for the funny one"
Whenever you make a joke and a girl laughs so hard that she ends by hitting you in laughter calling you that playful "Idiot".
Bro, you're on that destructive path of the friendzone.
The idea is not to be so funny but be funny or at least appreciate funny things. Laugh at jokes or learn how to fake a convincing laugh to jokes.
It's cute to be around someone that is funny or makes you think you're funny.
Next line, J.Cole's crush doesn't get involved in Cheap talk and Rumours.
There's a saying that 'You're what you say' and another that says 'What you laugh at tells alot about you'.
What do they mean?
The words that come out of your mouth and the things that interest and Incite you is a vivid picture of your personality.
With that said, I can't express enough how sexy a polymath is; someone who can say a alot about many things.
It's a big turn on to be knowledgeable.
My favourite line in that verse was
Sexy but never show too much
I could relate with it totally. I have a crush and she is the right kind of sexy in my eyes. Her clothes are tight enough to let you know she has IT but loose just right to make you wonder what else is hidden.
Her slits were never outrageous but revealed just enough; Just enough to make me....*well nevermind*
It's dressing in a way that doesn't scream attention but eventually getting it.
Now to the grand ingredient.
The art of sublime
There's so much meaning that could be ascribed to that phrase but there's a borderline.
It refers to someone or anything that exudes awe, brilliance and fear. And yes it can be an art.
How to attain this status?
Confidence without a tinge of insecurity
Be Somewhat Taciturn creating a sense of mystique.
Show a sense of pride; not the blatant annoying type.
And lastly, express power. Be very good at something.
Be it brilliance in academics or a certain manual or social skill . The more stuff you're really good at, the more attractive you're.
So by my authority, go and be irresistible .
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