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Why People break up
Why do people break up? A myriad of reasons
Every relationship with it's peculiarity but there's always a borderline
The common reason is not just cheating but repeated Cheating...
Too many women, way too many women believe it's a man's nature to cheat;likened to the spots of leopard, but how true is this?
I'll say very true if you ask me and I'll blame it on the testosterone.
This doesnt mean all men cheat, some men try not to even though unsuccessfully but they try.
The perfect incentive for a man to be faithful is His love for you; his love not to see you hurt and only a reasonable man is capable of this.
Conclusively, Date a Reasonable person who is incredibly in love with you.
For others, it is loss of bloom, spark or fire in the relationship.
Like my friend Adrian said, you can't just be eating rice everyday. It's tiring.
Be it white rice, Jollof or Friend Rice. It's all rice and it gets boring. It's totally normal to be attracted sexually to another woman.
Rice again???
In truth, relationships can be quite drudgingly monotonous over time. It's the same visits, talk and sex positions.
Personally, I think this is the biggest challenge to every relationship. Boredom sets in at some point or the other. It's virtually almost inevitable no matter how spontaneous you try to be.
What can one do?
Just keep on with it, sometimes take a breather, a few days or weeks to miss the person or whatever works for you.
Boredom doesn't lasts forever, so it's only right that whenever the phase is over you can still have your partner.
Lastly, people could along the course of a relationship develop different interest, dreams, goals or vision depending on what motivational books you're reading.
I could wake up tomorrow and want to leave this country more desperately than I already want to or wake up with an unexplainable desire to be a pastor. Who knows what tomorrow holds???
In such times, the break up is inevitable
Yet Again, what can one Do?
Share goals.
Tell your significant other your new interests and keep in touch with theirs too.
Support whatever you feel is right and achievable and criticize whatever seems stupid or wrong.
The saddest part of it all is, you can follow all the right steps in making a relationship work through and through and still have it Crash.
There are no guarantees when it comes to loving but still, it's death not to feel love and express it. It's our onerous responsibility as humans.
Well...
There's something everyone can collectively agree on
It is that Love is never Enough
Never enough to sustain a relationship.
Then what is?
Nothing really is but what's close enough is "Wilful Hard work". It is two people agreeing to work on the mutual feelings; to sacrifice, endure, understand and to share.
Every relationship with it's peculiarity but there's always a borderline
The common reason is not just cheating but repeated Cheating...
Is that one news???
I'll say very true if you ask me and I'll blame it on the testosterone.
This doesnt mean all men cheat, some men try not to even though unsuccessfully but they try.
The perfect incentive for a man to be faithful is His love for you; his love not to see you hurt and only a reasonable man is capable of this.
Conclusively, Date a Reasonable person who is incredibly in love with you.
For others, it is loss of bloom, spark or fire in the relationship.
Like my friend Adrian said, you can't just be eating rice everyday. It's tiring.
Be it white rice, Jollof or Friend Rice. It's all rice and it gets boring. It's totally normal to be attracted sexually to another woman.
In truth, relationships can be quite drudgingly monotonous over time. It's the same visits, talk and sex positions.
Personally, I think this is the biggest challenge to every relationship. Boredom sets in at some point or the other. It's virtually almost inevitable no matter how spontaneous you try to be.
What can one do?
Just keep on with it, sometimes take a breather, a few days or weeks to miss the person or whatever works for you.
Boredom doesn't lasts forever, so it's only right that whenever the phase is over you can still have your partner.
Lastly, people could along the course of a relationship develop different interest, dreams, goals or vision depending on what motivational books you're reading.
I could wake up tomorrow and want to leave this country more desperately than I already want to or wake up with an unexplainable desire to be a pastor. Who knows what tomorrow holds???
In such times, the break up is inevitable
Yet Again, what can one Do?
Share goals.
Tell your significant other your new interests and keep in touch with theirs too.
Support whatever you feel is right and achievable and criticize whatever seems stupid or wrong.
The saddest part of it all is, you can follow all the right steps in making a relationship work through and through and still have it Crash.
Well...
There's something everyone can collectively agree on
It is that Love is never Enough
Never enough to sustain a relationship.
Then what is?
Nothing really is but what's close enough is "Wilful Hard work". It is two people agreeing to work on the mutual feelings; to sacrifice, endure, understand and to share.
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