PRYING TIME

     I asked her if she goes through her boyfriend's phone, she was surprised that was even a question

Why shouldn't I?

she deemed it only normal that a girlfriend  checks up on the activities of her boyfriend and classified it as some measure of security for herself and the relationship.  She sees it as preparing for the worst and also watching out for things before they go out of hand.

      Another says she would only if there's a reason to, a reason for suspicion: those times when he's often away or whatever. Others don't need any reason they are full of belief that as long as a man has "two eggs and a sausage" he's going to cheat , so they are always on the prowl.
There are a few who don't want to know, who believe ignorance is bliss and reading your man's chat don't guarantee anything

           I just want my peace of mind. 

What about boys? Their case is extraordinary. No matter how much a boys cheat he still doesn't want to cheated on even slightly and yes,  they read chats too. Boys are just babies with beards.  

     Every relationship has uniquely what works and what doesn't.  If both parties are Owkay with it then hell yeah and if not, well you already know. I am a part of those who think privacy should be respected as much we can and that a man is not a complete idiot as we appear sometimes to be. We know when are flirting and when a girl is flirting back and we welcome these things because we want to, because we like it. 

      Nothing saves a man from cheating than himself. Catching him now could mean he has to be smarter at cheating tomorrow. But then again, it all comes down to whatever works for you.

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